Are you afraid of going to hell? Why, or why not?
What do you think of the ideas of universalism (all wind up being saved) and annihilationism (Those who go to hell are completely destroyed)? Can you understand why believing in the loving nature of God has led to these beliefs?
Why is it inaccurate to say that God sends people to hell? How did the choices of the rich man of Luke 16 naturally lead him to the consequences he faced?
How does God use hell to bring about feelings of desperation? Why is desperation a good place to be? What benefits come from feeling desperate?
How does identity play into your eternal future? How would you describe your own identity to someone else?